Thanks for all your help CFC, sorry I did not reply last night but I was just too tired and stressed (wallowing in self pity and angst), you have given me good advice in the past and I sincerely appreciate the advice you're supplying now.
You should never split a pair up once they have bred, the pair bonding is for life but if there is a split either manually by you or from the bond breaking down between them it is highly likely you will never get them to pair up again and there will more than likely be violence between them until one is removed or killed.
Usually the male is the dominant fish but they both play an aggressive role, the female will stay in the cave with the eggs while the male guards outside the cave but in the case of a large intruder the female will join the male outside in seeing off the threat.
You know in all the stuff I read, never once did I see anything suggesting that they paired for life, in fact quite the opposite, the sites I read on breeding pretty much all suggested moving fry and the dominent parent, to ensure that the female was not harried to death by the male if she was not ready to spawn again. I also figured this would be a good way to make sure that I had sold all of my fry prior to brewing a new batch.
NTD will effect some other species of tetra but the parasite that causes the disease is a protazoan parasite which can host itself in the bodies of many species so even tanks that have had no tetras in for months can suddenly be infested again as soon as more are added. The disease carried by dwarf gouramies is a bacterial disease which can survive even with no fish present in the tank for short periods, it can be transfered to other labyrynth fishes like other gourami species and climbing perches as well as the dwarf species.
Yep, that was what my research told me, that in fact the tank needs to be fully steralised to remove the parasite if one wished to add new tetra's. At this point I've decided that I don't actually like any of them very much and would not be getting anymore anyway, therefore no need to strip the tank down. The only reason I have them is because my husband and children liked them so much.
In your situation i would place all the smaller fish into the 22L tank as a temporary measure and then try to get a larger tank for either them or the kribs, i fear that 22 litres will be too small for the kribs and is likely to cause aggression problems between them, as you have already seen signs of breeding it would be a shame to stress the pair bond and risk having two incompatable kribs.
I moved the Krib's into the 22lt last night, but can easily move them back after work. I was very worried about the other tank ocupants being killed, but if your quite sure they'll be ok then I can put the "boys" (male guppies) in the 22lt instead and the Neon's will have to take their chances as I have no intention of infecting my QT/Hospital tank with NTD.
One of the BN Cat's is very small, around 5cm's, will it be ok? Should I move it to the "girls & fry" tank to be on the safe side?
Will the molly's work as "dither" fish? I guess they'll have to as I don't have enough space to add any other type of fish for the Krib's to chase.
I have also asked for a 5' tank for Mother's Day, which is only a few weeks off, so I've got my fingers crossed!