Minimum size tank is 4 foot long x 2 foot wide x 2 foot high for a breeding pr. These fish can reach 8-10 inches in diameter so they need a big tank. Think two dinner plates in the aquarium.
They are highly territorial and big discus bully smaller ones. The result is the smaller fish usually die one by one over a period of time and you are left with a mature pair or a single big male (if all the fish are males).
If you want a breeding pair, buy 8-10 fish that are 3-4 inches in diameter. Put them together in a big tank and grow them up. When they pr off, move the prs into their own tanks or move the remaining fish out.
If you have a really big tank, then a pair might breed at one end and the other fish can live at the other end. But small tanks end up with a pr killing all the other discus through stress, intimidation and bullying.
There was a discus tank in one of the pet shops around here. It was 12 foot long x 2 foot wide x 30 inches high. It had about 10 adult discus in, along with heaps of other fishes. The discus were up there at feeding time fighting for food with the other fishes. When a pr started breeding, they took over about 1/3 of the tank and the remaining discus moved to the other end of the tank. When the pr finished breeding, everyone went back to normal.
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If you have the fish in an area where lots of people move around the aquarium, the fish get use to movement near them and don't become shy and retiring. You can have dither fishes in the tank with them and this can also help the discus be more outgoing.
We had a discus tank on the counter at the shop and the fish used to breed in the tank. There were people everywhere, and right next to the tank most of the time. We even had children touching the glass. The fish didn't care and would spend most of their time waiting for people to put food in the tank.
On the other end of the scale is a friend who had them in a fishroom. He had the walls painted black, black curtains that were closed all the time. He had dim lights above the tank and nobody went in the room. His fish freaked out and hid any time someone opened the door or went into the room. They were easily stressed and spooked and rarely bred. I told him to change things and he did, and the fish started spending more time out in the open and he could enjoy them because they didn't hide when he went in the room.
If you keep discus or any other fish, make sure they are in a spot where there is light, movement and people so the fish associate people with food and don't stress out all the time.