The female needs to be put into a QT tank to recover for a couple of days, a small amount of salt and maybe Melafix or whatever you have available in the US to repair damaged fins will be of help in recovering, make sure that the QT tank is the same tank as the breeding tank to avoid shocking her system.
You say that the female is ripe with eggs, how are you judging that ?
Females can be quite chubby but it doesn't mean that she is ready to mate, you have to introduce her to the male in a safe container like a glass chimney or clear glass container, this will ensure that the male can view her and display and prepare her body to produce eggs --- this may take a day or two before she is truely ready, to ensure you understand when she is ready she will be submissive by dipping her nose down in the tank and her fins will be folded, she will have vertical stripes and not horizontal stripes -
Vertical ]]]]]]]] this equates to breeding
Horizontal ------------ equates to stress