Well there you go durbkat - opaline gouramies (a color morph of the three-spot gourami - trichogaster trichopterus) are one of the most aggressive (I consider them to be the most aggressive) gouramies commonly available at your average LFS. They also shouldn't ever be kept in pairs in a tank that small. You called one a 'he' but I don't know whether you new their sexes or are just assuming. regardless, 2 males in a 20 gallon are likely to fight to the death and the stress of the conflict usualy results in both of them dying anyway long before they actualy fight. If you had a male and female, the male typicaly chases the female until she dies and if you have two females, the larger will chase the smaller until she dies. Being highly territorial, they also don't like new additions to their tanks so the reaction to the tetras is perfectly normal in a tank that's only 20 gallons.