I'll first respond to your questions in post #14 about water hardness. The parameters of GH (general hardness), KH (carbonate hardness, also called Alkalinity) and pH are closely connected. To keep this from getting overly complicated, the GH is the amount of dissolved mineral in the water. Water is a powerful solvent, which means that it very readily will take up anything it comes into contact with. Water falling from clouds is "pure," like distilled water. As it falls it can assimilate substances in the air, then in the ground over which is flows or sits. Water coming into contact with rocks that are calcareous, meaning composed of a calcium like limestone, will become "hard" as the mineral dissolves into the water. So the GH of the water coming out of your tap is due to the source of that water, the reservoir, lake, river or from wherever the municipality gets the water. Now, it can also pick up other minerals such as copper from the copper pipes in the building, but unless the pipes are brand new, this is minimal. The minerals at the water's source are the important ones.
Water conditioners like Prime and any other do not affect the GH, KH or pH of the source water. They will detoxify "heavy metals" (if it says this on the label, Prime and most others do) which include copper, iron, zinc, manganese; so this should take care of any residual metals picked up along the way. But the dissolved minerals responsible for the GH remain.
You also asked about adjusting the GH. The safest and easiest way to do this is to dilute the water with "pure" water. However, this is not easy in itself, and I don't think I want to get into this complexity just yet. First we need to be more certain of the GH (and KH would be useful to know). The API test will do this, though you could contact your water authority for the data as was suggested previously by someone.
Now to post #16. If the final determination of the GH shows fairly hard water, it would be best to consider fish that require such water. This is far simpler than adjusting parameters. Livebearers (platy, molly, swordtail, guppy, Endler), some rainbowfish, and a few others would be suitable as far as the parameters go. If the GH is only moderately hard, then the options increase a lot.
As for livebearers, yes, males only is a good way to go to avoid hundreds of fry monthly.
Byron.