In your case, the goal is to recycle your water with as little wastewater as possible.
The mixed-bed resin reduces the water hardness to 0% if you want. You can reuse all the water, and since your water already contains few salts, it's an economical method and far less complicated than what you're planning.
Theoretically, organic contaminants would still need to be oxidized, but in practice, I haven't noticed any negative effects when using resin in the filter chamber. However, I do have heavily planted aquariums.