Ok then i do apologize completely.
The reason for me choosing to do a fish in cycle was because the tank was heavily planted after scaping and was advised by a few people(not the local lfs) to add a few little fish to give the plants some food (if you no what i mean) And the fact of my filter was packed with mature filter media from another tank i did not think it would be a problem. I did not add any other fish for 2-3 weeks after this. I again apologize .
I can completely understand your frustration at what you thought was a dig at you, but I'm not on this forum for that reason, I assure you.
Mature filter media is a great place to start as you stated and I see now why you chose to add a few fish, thats understandable.
No apologies necessary, I myself didnt seem to come across as a know it all, because I certainly dont know it all, far from it tbh.
Good choice on the planted tank though, can be a challenge to keep sometimes, but looks awesome when its right
Hope your cycle sorts itself out soon enough.