She's Finally Lost The Plot.

micko

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Ok, went to a few fish shops today, went to four different places I think. First off, my girlfriend wanted to buy discus!
Although I've never kept them, I do admire them greatly. Don't know anything about them apart from they like soft water I believe, maybe not. Anyways, I asked her where she was going to put these, she said they were going in with the oscars and severum. I said no. They're too wee and I know nothing about keeping them, the oscar would eat them and besides, they weren't looking too good. A lot of gasping at the top.
Left there and went to another, she seen a tank busting with what was labelled as red tail catfish. Again, I know nothing about them. Apart from they're tank busters and we don't have the room. She enquired about these as they were pure black. The man said it was the juvi colouring. She wanted them too.
I pulled my BB out and done a search to show her the size they got. She still wanted them. I said the only way I would get one is if we had a tank big enough to house him for life. She still wanted him and to my amazement she asked how big would it need to be.
Needless to say, I couldn't answer her as I'm no expert, nor do I want to be an expert on any fish that I'd imagine would need a bigger tank than the boys 16X16ft bedroom.
We don't have the room.
She knows the size of tank an oscar needs and he doesn't grow no where near as big so I'm confused.
The reason why I'm confused is that she doesn't care about fish, that sounds harsh, its not like that but she could take or leave them. She likes livebearers and that's it. Any other fish we've got or I've shown her on the net she just rolls her eyes.

I'm not even sure if red tail cats are black when small, about 2.5 inches in length. Maybe they were mis-labelled.
 
Your not alone pal. My girlfriends exactly the same.

Her:"Get that one!!!"

Me:"No, it gets to big for our tank"

Her:"It's pretty though"

Me:"Can I get a bigger tank then?"

Her:"No"

Me:"Well we can't have it"

You just can't win with them.

(Not meaning any offense to women on here)
 
hahah it's the other way found for me! My daft boyfriend came home with a bala shart for our 60l the other day!!! :crazy:
 
Your not alone pal. My girlfriends exactly the same.

Her:"Get that one!!!"

Me:"No, it gets to big for our tank"

Her:"It's pretty though"

Me:"Can I get a bigger tank then?"

Her:"No"

Me:"Well we can't have it"

You just can't win with them.

(Not meaning any offense to women on here)


HAHAHAHA my girlfriend is exactly the same! My LFS has all the saltwater species aswell, so you can imagine the conversation lol

EDIT: Oh yeah, and it has a foot long turtle!
 
Thankfully my boyfriend actually listens to me. He started out with the "what about this one, it's cool". Now it's "hey babe, does this one get too big for my tank or would it work with the other fish I want?" He also knows he won't be getting his fish as soon as I set his tank up. He has seen how long it's taken my 75 to cycle and heard me rant about it enough that he gets it lol. I'm blessed I guess
 
Just be glad you didnt come home to find your Aqua One 620T (130L) killi tank containing considerably less killies and considerably more juvi Red Tailed Catfish and juvi Pearl Arrowana.

:unsure: from someone who knows fish!

The RTC met an untimely end :blush: :sad: horribly siphoning accident as i actually liked him. My 8 x 3 x 2 would have lasted him a while too. The Arro was anout 1-2" and is now 15-16" in a year :P and my Ex got the pleasure of keeping him.

And because im so nice.... he keeps the 8ft to put him in -_-
 
Just be glad you didnt come home to find your Aqua One 620T (130L) killi tank containing considerably less killies and considerably more juvi Red Tailed Catfish and juvi Pearl Arrowana.

Yikes... I'd have gone spare!
 
I seem to remember threatning to leave him :blink: which i eventually did!
 
Just be glad you didnt come home to find your Aqua One 620T (130L) killi tank containing considerably less killies and considerably more juvi Red Tailed Catfish and juvi Pearl Arrowana.

:unsure: from someone who knows fish!

The RTC met an untimely end :blush: :sad: horribly siphoning accident as i actually liked him. My 8 x 3 x 2 would have lasted him a while too. The Arro was anout 1-2" and is now 15-16" in a year :P and my Ex got the pleasure of keeping him.

I'm sorry, I don't follow, where did the killies go?

And because im so nice.... he keeps the 8ft to put him in -_-


I'm sorry, I don't follow, where did the killies go?
 
How much you know bout Arrowanas and Red Tail Cats??? ;)

The killies filled them up nicely, they didnt need feeding for a week or two :crazy:
 
How much you know bout Arrowanas and Red Tail Cats??? ;)


Nothing!

They grow too big for any tanks I've ever had so I never done any research on them.

Expensive fish food by the sounds of it.
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hahah it's the other way found for me! My daft boyfriend came home with a bala shart for our 60l the other day!!! :crazy:

:rofl: I thinks that's a whole different thing to a Bala shark :lol:
 
Expensive fish food by the sounds of it.
I did expensive cat snacks once... fish acclimating in bucket + cat who likes to knock things with water in them over = fish flipping about on the carpet and one very pleased cat :grr:
 
Mmmm a £5 baby arrowana and an £8 Red Tail Cat ate 20 Killies (inc younguns) of various species, some really nice ones too! Mainly just gardneri, ranchovi(sp) and australis. But they were pretties.....

Blasted fish... i do love predatory fish but seriously?

I hate seeing Balas in captivity, to me, id not personally keep them unless my tank was at least 3+ meters long (at least 12-13ft and even then for a shoal...).
 

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