While BBQs and a day off from work are fine let’s not forget the real purpose to this day. I have taken time to remember my friends who died in Vietnam.
Also need to acknowledge those that have joined the military to avoid jail and made the most of it and changed their life for the better.
I'm a U.S. Navy vet that lost the use of my right eye and don't think of Memorial Day as just for those that died or were injured but as remembrance for all that gave up some years of their life to keep our country's principles going.
I also do not think of Memorial Day as strictly in remembrance of U.S. soldiers but for all that sacrificed world wide.
The UK is 11 November as well, with a minute's silence held at 11 am - the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month. Here it's called Remembrance Day and paper poppies are sold and worn the days before. Poppies were common flowers in the battlefields of World War 1.