I think the one thing is that bigger fish out strip supply of bigger tanks... as the species get bigger we end up working on minimums as not many people can provide more. Where as with smaller fish you can push up the minimum quite easily to suggest the bigger tank which is quite attainable but if you said that a minimum for an Oscar was a 120g not a 75g its just impossible for a lot of people to afford these or buy them. Where as an Oscar alone in a 75g can work great, especially as a wet pet or with something suitable. It also helps to prevent people getting a 55 and saying oh yeah Ill get the 120g soon... a 75g and a 55g are about as easy to find at about the same price. But the kit that often comes with the 75 is more suited to the bigger fish.
Then with the Bala Sharks, an 8 foot tank is the best of a bad situation, Bala Sharks are a migratory swarming fish to them an 8 foot tank is nothing really... But there are so many around that an 8 foot tank is a better option than a 4 foot tank and a much better option than... well I wont even suggest it but you can see what I mean. I think the same goes for a lot of fish really. We as a hobby cant provide the best homes for these fish but we can make them comfortable, feed them well and safe etc. And their ideal space is not attainable so it is a case of working on minimums.
The concepts and ideas of how to keep fish in our tanks is all just a group of experiences crossing and resulting in concepts of what a minimum is and what a good standard is. So for example the way a 75g came up as a good number for an Oscar is probably - too many people had them cause problems in a 55g or smaller - it happens with a lot of fish, Oscars are a good example though as they can cause a lot of issues, waste and water quality plus aggression and potential to eat some tank mates so working out a rule is quite easy and happened quickly because so many people were talking about it and warning others of what not to do. And it makes sense to see the minimum as the minimum because that is the point where success rates go up and up, so it makes sense to follow this even if you didnt post the original question. Similar for Angels, for me the bare minimum is 125 litres as long as the tank is 18 inches tall which means they dont graze / snap their ventral fins and suffer infections, fungus etc etc and 125 litres works as a minimum for length to provide the length and flow for the slow moving, dense vegetation dwelling fish to live.
But then it puts on a question of the smaller fish that what we should be providing larger than minimums for them to provide the best possible environment as possible.
Then there is a whole question of a "mob mentality" of a forum, by which I mean in the 4? years I have been a member here the minimum tank sizes and "inch" per gallon rules go up and down all the time it just depends on the members that are most active at any one time. So for example if your a member with the same tank and same fish for 3 years I could easily imagine your stocking would be judged as - understocked, stocked and overstocked in that time period...
In the case of the Neons in a 15g - it is probably okay to have them in there but I am a huge fan of the concept of alternatives and this is one of the classic situations - Green Neon Tetras, half the size of a normal Neon Tetra but ultimately a very similar, very attractive fish a much better life in a 15g tank for these fish more swimming to size ratio, opportunity for a bigger school etc.
If you research and read and look you can always find alternatives for colour, shape, personality, behaviour etc its just finding the right one.
So lets start up at a Columbian Tetra - bright blue with red fins gets to the size of a Digestive, need something smaller? Cardinal Tetra, different shape same colours still a reasonable size, need smaller still? Neon Tetra, need smaller still Green Neon Tetra? 4 species of fish that fill a very very similar (if not the same) niche - Blue and Red, schooling fish, South American. Yet you cover tank mates for a huge spectrum of fish, from big cichlids and minor predators and then you have fish that will fit into small tanks, suitably away from the former mentioned as well.
Just a few ramblings - hope it makes sense.
Wills