Please Be Kind To Us Newbies!

aquariagirl1976

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I have recently joined this forum to see help and advice for my new hobby. For the most part I find the help courteous and and insightful. I have on occasion, seen rude comments and answers, not only on my posts but on other newbie posts. A good example that I read this morning is in this topic below:

http://www.fishforums.net/Red-bellied-Pira...on-t189170.html

Someone came to this forum seeking genuine advice just to be rediculed. Please, keep in mind that we newbies are just that, new, and don't need to be reminded of that when we ask questions. I do realize that 95% of the posters on here are great, but for the 5% that aren't, please keep in mind that you started out new in this hobby too at some point.

Thanks for reading.
 
Hi Aquariagirl -

This has happened to me in joining new forums too. Ignore it ! "Newbie" in my opinion is a silly name that you get dubbed with when you join a forum.
You are rated by the number of posts you make, and your rank will climb, not necessarly your intelligence but, your rank. I'm listed as a "newbie" here too, even though I'm a 49 year old female that has been keeping fish for some 30 years. Some of the young (atleast in the mind) members get into a "click" and find it amusing to rag on new commers. If they find that necessary or fun, it should be done by "Private Message" I find it more distracting, and dissapointing than anything else. There are TONS of forums out there to join. If you join and keep up with several starting out, you will settle on a few that you like to revisit. Everybody likes to talk about their fish, so do I. All questions are good questions. You get a collection of experience, and then use your best judgment. Don't let those kind of people get the best of you, or discourage you from posting on this forum or any other. If you've done someting wrong, you will hear from the moderators ! Once you've been on a forum for awhile, you will see yourself, that many questions get ask over and over again. The "trolling" thing I've never heard of (but then there is alot I've never heard of !) The people that give responses like the one you recieved, obviously have nothing better to do.
As far as your fish question -
I keep Angelfish only now, however in the past I've kept, Oscars, Pacu, Arawanas, Clown Knifes, African Cichlids and many other live eaters. Angelfish will eat live guppies babies, Swordtail babies, etc... BUT !!!! There is a risk of internal parasites with this type of feeding. Be sure to purchase the healthiest fish you can from a reputable place. And look into some variety in your fishes feeding. Start him out young, after a steady diet of live feeding, it can be difficult to get them to like anything else later on. With your fish, live food will probably be it's first choice. There are many foods out there to offer to "live feeders".
Plus if the fish is use to a variety, it will make it easier on you in the long run, sometimes the live feeders you want aren't available, or you go on vacation and someone else needs to feed the fish, etc ...
I always kept a thirty gal. fully set up and maintained with feeder goldfish, to have a constant supply, and you can maintain the "feeders" health yourself, instead of relying on the pet shop to do it (which they usually don't) The constant tank cleaning, keeping feeders, and space required for the large cichlids, is the reasons I don't keep them anymore but, they are wonderful fish with great personality. I hope you enjoy yours !
B Wood
 
Oh one more thing Aquariagirl -
Not to take away from this forum, as I'm sure it does have many really good people and info here but, one you might want to look at is -
####.com They are more specific in the types of fish you are keeping. Don't be surprised if the "Newbie" thing comes up ! There is a group of those type of people EVERYWHERE. They are a dime a dozen. Seems to be especially evident in the "Macho Fish" catagory. But there are really good ones too, and with persistance you WILL meet them, and I'm sure you will here as well.
B WOOD

Oh I see that got Bleeped ! If you are interested send me a Private message
B Wood
 
O.K. I see the bad post was directed to "mdwags" not "Aquariagirl" But good for you for bringing attention to this type of behavior.
My comments can be directed to any "Newbie" though. If they are feeling unwelcome or made fun of. Everybody has to start somewhere.
And look to people with more experience for help, not ridicule.
Hopfully they will return to the forum, it's that type of stuff that runs people off.
B WOOD
 
as a higher posting member i have no weight here, but i will apologise to you on behalf of the majority of members! my suggestion to you would be to report the offending post to the section mod!
 
I have recently joined this forum to see help and advice for my new hobby. For the most part I find the help courteous and and insightful. I have on occasion, seen rude comments and answers, not only on my posts but on other newbie posts. A good example that I read this morning is in this topic below:

http://www.fishforums.net/Red-bellied-Pira...on-t189170.html

Someone came to this forum seeking genuine advice just to be rediculed. Please, keep in mind that we newbies are just that, new, and don't need to be reminded of that when we ask questions. I do realize that 95% of the posters on here are great, but for the 5% that aren't, please keep in mind that you started out new in this hobby too at some point.

Thanks for reading.
I agree that the OP was not treated fairly by some of the posters in that thread. What a shame. I have reported this post of yours in the hope that mods will look at this as well as that other thread where things started off on a very unpleasant foot.
 
Hi Aquariagirl....I am glad that you brought this to our attention. I have been on TFF now for several years and I truly believe it is a great resource. I can tell you from the heart that, our mods, myself included, have a ZERO tolerance for anyone mistreating our members, using foul language or showing utter disrespect for other members in their posts. I have perused the thread in question and I will take appropriate action.

I ask all members here to report what they believe to be inappropriate behavior or language to any of the moderator staff. You should refrain from letting other trolls or rude individuals drag you into verbal fisticuffs.

Oh behalf of TFF, I apologize and hope you will continue to hang in with us. SH
 
When I enter a forum they put me on newbie... :blink: :blink: But I'm not new to keeping fish :crazy: :crazy: .

What I did to get my self out was to pick as many boards as i like and post as many posts as I like every day :hyper: :hyper:

I sprouted on this forum from 4 posts to 20 posts in one day.
 

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