Majjie
Fishaholic
I have a pair of pearl gouramis Malcolm and Minnie - or at least I think of them as a pair - they possibly don't.
I've had Minnie for more than two years, she's one of the first tropical fish I bought. I originally had two females but Minnie persecuted her "friend" to death - before I realised that was common behaviour amongst tropical fishes (the books don't warn you ...) and I didn't separate them quickly enough.
I still believed that gouramis should be kept in at least pairs, if not groups (the books say so!) so I bought Malcolm. I had by then worked out the difference between the sexes.
After Min had pinned Malc flat to the gravel several times I separated them until Malc had grown up a bit. They've now been living together for well over a year.
Until a few weeks ago Malc was the boss and if he was out and about then Min retreated to her corner of the tank. Recently though, the tables have been turned and Minnie reigns supreme in the main part of the tank. Malc now lives behind the bogwood except at feeding time or when they are doing their impression of kissing gouramis. They spend a lot of time pushing each other back and forward by the mouth (I believe it's agression - and not love
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I'm a bit worried about Malc who seems to have lost a bit of weight and about both of them because their mouths look kind of greyish. Is this due to excessive "kissing"? Is it slime from stress (they've both suffered from slime disease in the past - when I've been treating the other fish in their tank)? Or what? I don't have room to separate them again.
Malc, by the way has three feelers, not two. I thought one feeler was split and it would heal but 18 months later he still has three. Is that common?
See pic - where they're squaring up for some intensive "kissing"
I've had Minnie for more than two years, she's one of the first tropical fish I bought. I originally had two females but Minnie persecuted her "friend" to death - before I realised that was common behaviour amongst tropical fishes (the books don't warn you ...) and I didn't separate them quickly enough.
I still believed that gouramis should be kept in at least pairs, if not groups (the books say so!) so I bought Malcolm. I had by then worked out the difference between the sexes.
After Min had pinned Malc flat to the gravel several times I separated them until Malc had grown up a bit. They've now been living together for well over a year.
Until a few weeks ago Malc was the boss and if he was out and about then Min retreated to her corner of the tank. Recently though, the tables have been turned and Minnie reigns supreme in the main part of the tank. Malc now lives behind the bogwood except at feeding time or when they are doing their impression of kissing gouramis. They spend a lot of time pushing each other back and forward by the mouth (I believe it's agression - and not love

I'm a bit worried about Malc who seems to have lost a bit of weight and about both of them because their mouths look kind of greyish. Is this due to excessive "kissing"? Is it slime from stress (they've both suffered from slime disease in the past - when I've been treating the other fish in their tank)? Or what? I don't have room to separate them again.
Malc, by the way has three feelers, not two. I thought one feeler was split and it would heal but 18 months later he still has three. Is that common?
See pic - where they're squaring up for some intensive "kissing"
