I finally wore my husband down. He said yes to a "small" tank in the living room. It won't be my future dream tank, but for now, I'll take it! My LFS is having a dollar-per-gallon sale on tanks so I would like to get one of the sizes they have. I know they have a 38 gallon (36.3" x 12.7" x 19.8") but I would of course, rather get the 45 gallon (same dimensions except more height (23.8" h). Either way, my family members all like angelfish so I would like to start there since I am eager to increase their interest in my hobby. 
The tank will be planted, sand substrate, soft water, pH likely around 6.5ish (as in current tanks).
Now, I know angelfish can be aggressive, especially when they breed, and that either a 38 or 45 gallon is not large enough for more than a bonded pair. Can angelfish be happy alone or is it cruel to deprive them of a mate? I just don't know how to find a boded pair since they are almost always sold as juveniles. The advice I usually read is to get several, wait for pairs to form by themselves, and then give away the rest. I feel too bad to give away fish once they are already at home, so I'm not sure this is a viable option for me. That's why I'm wondering if they can live by themselves.
I saw a gorgeous adult angelfish that was already large, for sale at a store. If I got one like that (or got him), should I try to get it a mate or just keep it by itself? With guinea pigs, an adult can be intolerant of other adults but will accept a youngster and then grow up with it just fine. Is it the same with angelfish? If I got a singleton adult (there were no others with him) and then a juvenile, will the larger one be more tolerant of the little one or will it just be easier for him to kill the smaller one?
I have read that angelfish are fine with most tetras as long as they aren't small enough to eat. I was thinking perhaps congo tetras since they like the same temperature range as angelfish. Would 6 - 8 be too many?
Lastly, I will have bronze cories eventually to put in there. My bronze cories have produced yet another batch of filter babies (fry that I discover when I empty my filter into a bucket). They are in a breeding net at the moment but when they are big enough, I will move them.
Advice and experience, as always, is much appreciated! I am super excited and can't wait to get a new tank! Oh boy, oh boy, oh boy!!!!!
The tank will be planted, sand substrate, soft water, pH likely around 6.5ish (as in current tanks).
Now, I know angelfish can be aggressive, especially when they breed, and that either a 38 or 45 gallon is not large enough for more than a bonded pair. Can angelfish be happy alone or is it cruel to deprive them of a mate? I just don't know how to find a boded pair since they are almost always sold as juveniles. The advice I usually read is to get several, wait for pairs to form by themselves, and then give away the rest. I feel too bad to give away fish once they are already at home, so I'm not sure this is a viable option for me. That's why I'm wondering if they can live by themselves.
I saw a gorgeous adult angelfish that was already large, for sale at a store. If I got one like that (or got him), should I try to get it a mate or just keep it by itself? With guinea pigs, an adult can be intolerant of other adults but will accept a youngster and then grow up with it just fine. Is it the same with angelfish? If I got a singleton adult (there were no others with him) and then a juvenile, will the larger one be more tolerant of the little one or will it just be easier for him to kill the smaller one?
I have read that angelfish are fine with most tetras as long as they aren't small enough to eat. I was thinking perhaps congo tetras since they like the same temperature range as angelfish. Would 6 - 8 be too many?
Lastly, I will have bronze cories eventually to put in there. My bronze cories have produced yet another batch of filter babies (fry that I discover when I empty my filter into a bucket). They are in a breeding net at the moment but when they are big enough, I will move them.
Advice and experience, as always, is much appreciated! I am super excited and can't wait to get a new tank! Oh boy, oh boy, oh boy!!!!!
