I'm a newbie myself, being 20 days into my first cycle, and I must say that I've never found the members on this forum anything but helpful.
Fishkeeping is a complicated, even difficult hobby at times, and sometimes asking what's best for your fish does sometimes mean hearing things you don't want to hear. I'm sure that Taffy and any other members who have offended you didn't mean to do so, they were simply saying it like it is.
The fact of the matter is that you NEED to keep your ammonia and nitrite down. Ideally at 0 but never more than 0.25, as this is poisonous to fish, and the way to do this is with frequent water changes. We don't want your fish to die, either now or from related diseases in the long term, and I'm sure you don't either. The fact that your ammonia has been up to 1.5 is almost definitely the explanation for unusual behaviour in your fish.
Oh I'm not doubting the advice. But posts which contribute nothing such as the first response to this thread have completely put me off this site. Fishless cycling might be the "best" way, but its not the only way, and I am doing everything I'm supposed to. The 1.5 spike happened once and I promptly changed more than usual in the water, tested it again a few hours later and it was back to zero.
No I don't want my fish to die. I chose the fish-in cycling so I didn't have to add ammonia, and I knew I could dedicate the time needed.
http
/www.fishforums.net/index.php?/topic/361506-fish-in-cycle-new-15-gallon-tank-help/ - The responses to this thread gave much the same advice but with no sarcasm and pointless +1 posts. I'm sorry for how annoyed I have got and sorry if I offend people in turn, but I've felt like I've been looked down on. Thanks for the tips about using live plants however, that's something I think I'll definately do.

