To expand a little, livebearer males have hooks on their gonopodiums, and what doesn't fit, doesn't work. It isn't just dna or fertility, it's an impossible act.
To convince anyone, you will have to start with a photo of an adult. A female molly can store sperm packets for a year or so. A dalmation is a linebred hybrid, and not a natural species, so some variation among the young is possible. They generally breed true, but not always. She could breed with other types of mollies. Do you know which type of male she could have been running with a year or more ago, given that you say you have juveniles at this point?
There are so many factors that can confuse a breeder of these fish. Don't worry, I don't think you're an unethical or unskilled breeder producing hybrids. I think your rep is safe and the answer lies within the molly.