For those of you who can't remember/don't know....
When we first set the tank up in August, we attached the backing decor with household antifungal silicone, after an hour we realised we'd maybe made a problem and removed the decor, cleaned the glass with a glass scraper and i hacked chunks out of the decor backs where the silicone was. We presumed we had removed all the silicone, reattached the decor with aquarium silicone, rinsed the gravel and added the ammonia, Kleen Off was the brand we used and water. The water was murky for a day or so from gravel dust but that all cleared.
Roll on 6 weeks later, a 95% water change and lots of posts on here....we gave up!!
We hacked the backing off, chucked the gravel, bought new filter inserts, cleaned the whole tank with boiling water then pure ammonia and started again!!
2 weeks on here I am, with a cycling tank!! So, the variables that could have caused the problem, original silicone, gravel, dodgy ammonia!