TwoTank has given a very good explanation of the TD/GH issue (post #5) and raising GH/KH (post #7) is true, but your initial question remains, and frankly, I am at a loss to provide an answer as to how your GH could be dropping as much as it is. I have to honestly say that this seems almost impossible from the data we have been given.
Which test kit are you using for the GH tests? According to the online data, the API GH test measures calcium and magnesium, the two mineral salts primarily responsible for what we term general hardness. Other minerals like iron, potassium, etc can impact GH as well, but even if these were present in your water I would not expect the system's use of all of them to be as great as this.
In my own experience, I have near-zero GH in my tap water; the actual amount according to the water folks is 7-8 ppm, which is less than 1 dGH, and using the API liquid test it turns green with one drop so this is in sync. In three of my six current tanks I leave the GH alone, and in the other three I raise the GH solely for the benefit of the plants. Calcium deficiency occurs with the Echinodorus, Aponogeton and Tiger Lotus plants so I use Equilibrium to raise the GH to somewhere between 4 and 6 dGH. I carried out tests for about six weeks on these three tanks to determine the extent of the plant's use of GH, and to my surprise there was no change. Now, the API test is obviously not scientifically accurate to the extent that one can measure small deviations, but I had expected to see the GH lower at least by 1 over a period of a week, but it doesn't. To give one example, Equilibrium is added sufficient to raise the GH from 1 dGH to 6 dGH. The test immediately prior to the following week's water change indicates 6 dGH; immediately after a 50% water change the GH is 3 dGH as one would expect; Equilibrium is added and the following morning it is again 6 dGH, where it remains for the week until the next water change. The plants are clearly using calcium particularly, as without the Equilibrium they develop signs of severe calcium deficiency within a couple weeks, and maintaining the afore-mentioned dosage keeps them bright and green.
My tanks are fairly heavily planted, including a good cover of fast-growing surface plants like Water Sprite, Pennywort, Frogbit, and Water Lettuce, and the fish loads cannot be deemed light; yet there is no discernible drop in GH according to the API test. The tanks also have considerable quantities of wood, and even dried leaves in one. Coming back to your situation, a drop of 2 dGH and even more is puzzling to me. I'd be interested in finding out just what is happening here.
By the way, on the subject of buffering, one has to be very careful. As the data cited in post #7 mentions, a drastic rise in pH can occur, and this can cause serious issues for many soft water fish. This is why I use Equilibrium; it does not affect pH, so in my tanks it remains in the low 6's. Another point is that baking soda (sodium bicarbonate) is not a good additive. Stanley Weitzman discussed this in an article on preparing suitable water to spawn soft water fish, and mentioned that it has no long-term buffering capacity, so eventually the organic build-up overpowers the buffering. In addition, the sodium this adds is certainly not good for soft water fish, quite the opposite. Messing with water chemistry can be tricky.
Byron.