Andywg, Miss Wiggle and DiscusAngle, thank you so much for your reponses, i am not going to give up. I appreciate your help! I am mad about animals and am determined to give Chad the life he deserves. I have made the mistake of not researching Mbu's first so i am not going to make another mistake by taking him back and maybe having someone else buy him and then them taking him back - being passed from pillar to post will be stressful for him and i dont want that, he is home now so thats it. I am actually having an extention built and am thinking that the extention now will be for him - i'll cope with the kitchen i have ha ha - he's more important.
Now, people can we please go back to my first post and answer the other questions i had about feeding etc. I am looking at websites about Mbu's and the links i have been sent but i do value peoples opinions therefore welcome yours.
Many thanks
(please dont start arguing again ha ha)