5teady_2012
Here to help
I wasn't going to post to you anymore but I now feel I should after this post.
I want to say thank you for apologizing for the name calling and no hard feelings then. Things happen and it's also hard to tell the sincerity in posts when it comes to text. Thank you very much. Looking back on this whole thing I shouldn't have said I disagree in my first post. I shouldn't have quoted you and just posted and gave my opinion. That seemed to put you on the defensive right away and for that I apologize. I was just looking for your input in return and to have a debate with you as to why you felt that way. It went totally wrong from the beginning.
In a normal debate when opinions differ I would have worded things differently than I did so as not to come across like I did. I will admit that I'm very old-school and set in my ways and even though it doesn't show in my posts I do realize that when I read other peoples opinions.
I'm here mainly to try and help people with piranhas because they've been a love and passion of mine for 20 years and I feel are one of the most mis-treated fish in the aquarium world. I also learn new things and like reading users input.
We have differing opinions and I can respect that. Like I said previously, just because I feel a certain way doesn't mean that I am not open to others opinions that differ from mine.
IMO, a 30% waterchange is too little for any size tank but at least now I feel like I can respect your opinion and perhaps learn from you as to why you think that way and from other things you post about also.
Either way, I am glad we got this worked out and I hope no hard feelings from your end either because I never intended that from the start but we both got out of hand and defensive.
Thank you again and I apologize also.
Reading back i think you have no need to applogise, i think i was the one being harsh and there is no hard feelings at all on my part..
I think everyone has thier own way of doing things and diffrent things work for some and dont for others.
The way i run my tanks works well and rarely have problems now, so i tend to pass on my info upon my experiences as im sure others do, this is where the disagreements come in, maybe its good though, cos it give people options to try diffrent things and helps them to have thier own way of doing stuff and find a way that works for them..
Im the same, im set in my ways and when someone disagrees, i do get a bit defensive i admit, but i think this is due to if my info is wrong, then why do i have no probs and well running tanks? this i need to work on and be more constructive in my replies rather than lashing out.
I guess we both deal with completely diffrent fish so are going to have completely diffrent ways of running things, and this i can respect.
anyways, no hard feeling at all, glad you replied
Wayne.