OK, can't see what you've got in that overflow itself pipe wise but this is what I'd do.
Set the 2 pipes up with 2 levels, one lower than the other. The lower pipe ramped down with a ball valve to allow a small amount of water to trickle into the higher inlet pipe.
The main pipe will work at full syphon, which will be near silent as it has no air in it, the higher pipe will work with little enough flow to allow the water to trickle down the edges without creating any bubble trapping and therefore no gurgling. You may need to add a T piece to this pipe to allow enough air ingress from above the water level of the tank.