hi i got a gold gourami and i bought her a female mate the ova day, to strt dey were really nice together but now the gold one chases my poor opaline, the gold seems to eat or sniff the opalins backside !? and they feel each ova alot, but when the opaline tries to pull away the gold gourami turns really nasty and looks as if its tryin to get chunks out of da opalines skin !! please help as my opaline is now stuk in a corner lookin sad 