I may say I feel somewhat jealous, I have a friend, completely new to fishkeeping (I mean brand-new) and he's keeping a blue ram in a tank smaller than mine, the fish is thriving. I say ya I a female who has reached maturity, so we decide we'll take them 2 me, then its ever so happy looking better than it ever did then I get home and I'm feeling sooo guilty 1 second its happy next its dead. How is it that iv been going for 3 yrs he's been going for 2 months I know more about the fish and stuff but somehow the most outrageous events come into place, like an albino rainbow shark in a 25L, thriving he's now in my tank still thriving but anyway, he gets all these fish that get too big for his tank yet somehow they are happy for instance there was some kind of geophagus he got, living happily ever after, I'm not a jealous individual but this is crazy, I feel like I am completely stupid. Why is this happening!?!? He's learning to run before he can walk, and he's succeeding