i never have a problem with my males not wanting to spawn but my females are never ready, it seems like no matter how much conditioning i do they just dont want to. can someone help me figure this out?
thats because shes not happy with the males nest.If she does that put her back in the chimney wait for male to do nest then see what happens.If she does the same then leave them in there an see what happens.To be honest my female did that then the moring after there was eggs!!

ha ha im glad im not the only one and i dont feel comfortable leaving my bettas together overnight either. i curenlty have a male and female divided in a 5g tank and im hoping by this afternoon she wil be ready but last night when i put them together she was showing signs like she was ready and everything but once i pt her in she didnt want near the nest and literally freaked and and was darting around in the tank. should i leaver her when when she does this or is she clearly not ready?![]()