Cichlids are fun<i mean stressful for the avarage keeper to house.....Seriously even dwarfs have spats with each other, you are much better of keeping singular specimens of cichlids together than pairs, even them that can be difficult.But you stand a better chance of sucsess, I always now keep single specimens in a tank...but i do have a pair of oscars which as we speak are actually mock spawning and digging pits cleaning slate and sparing, they do chase they bala's and dollar but just out of there area,
We all do keep alot of cichlids together in the hope they get on, but what people need to understand is each cichlid will have a different mentality, like the oscar i had before 5incher ruled the tank even attacking me, where as these two i have now are very peaceful...
Ive done the alot of cichlids together but it ended in disaster, you can never as they question will it get on, because truely no one can reply to that question, they may think they can but cichlids bafel anyone, ive seen and know of full grown massive jaguar cichlids living happily with other oscars and severums,and iam talking for about 5years plus not a couple... but my jag just decided one day to attack..
wooh dont a rabbit on

hope you get the point, if you want pairs then you have to put up with the woohs unless you dedicate a tank to them, Much like a well known cichlid keeper/collector alot of people know..aquamojo..he keeps them in seperate tanks and very large ponds