Aphotic Phoenix
Fish Addict
Generally when someone says "get rid of them" around here they mean return them to your local pet shop, or find someone interested in taking them. No one is trying to be rude, but the I think most just assume that someone new to the hobby may not yet be ready to commit to purchasing a huge tank in the future for the sake of a few fish. Also, the longer someone keeps the fish the more attached to them they might grow to be, and the easier it is to justify to oneself that they "are just fine where they are".