Honestly, I don't know much about plants but all the hydrophila species that I've kept can be cut off like the polysperma. You may want to check the planted tanks section and ask there - people there are geniuses when it comes to plants
Yeah, you'll probably have to deal with the UGF in a year or so though sometimes they can last longer (or less

). Any filter you get, if you want to keep gouramies, will need to produce a relatively gentle current. If it's too strong, it'll stress them out and also reduce the volume of water which is 'calm' and therefore seen, from the gouramies' points of view, as good for establishing a territory. This will increase aggression as they'll have to compete more for space. Most of the external and itnernal filters are fine for a community tank. You are right though - it's worth doing some research into them all to see what suits you best and beginning with what your LFS has is a good idea. I think there may be pinned articles on this somewhere - I'll see if I can find them in a min.
Compatibility charts are terrible

They are good for coming up with ideas and as a rough guide but I have yet to see one that is accurate. A lot of the trouble is that they don't consider tank size, sex ratios etc. I mean you
could keep a single angel with a dwarf gourami in a large tank - you could keep practically any combination if the tank were large enough though

Simialrly, if you were to keep a pair of angels and a trio of banded gouramies (for example), in a 55 gallon, you would probably be fine. You are also right, however, in that angels can sometimes be ok in a community if they grow up in it. I still wouldn't even cosndier them with guppies though and, idealy, not with dwarfs either because this gourami is a little mroe prone to stress-related disease than others. If you do end up going for an angel, let the rest of your fish settle in first and add the small angel last. I personaly don't think it's worth the risk.
I live in the UK but the selection of fish here isn't great either - at least not at my LFSs. Australia should have a fair number of rainbowfish around though - a large number are indiginous to Australia lol (though not threadfins unfortunately). I think a good idea would be to go to your LFS and note anything smallish that catches your eye and then research those (or ask about them). Most LFSs will also order in fish if you ask though (that's how I get by

).
Dwarfs don't do well with large aggressive gouramies like three-spots or snakeskins, kissers etc and they also don't do well with species that, while small, don't mind their own business - like croaking gouramies and, sometimes, honeys (and I'll explain about these in a moment

). The problem is really just that dwarfs are easily stressed. If it were not for this, they would be easy to keep with most other gouramies that are not overly aggressive as they are perfectly capeable of defending themselves.
The honey/dwarf confusion stems from the fact that very few people look at the scientific names of gouramies when identifying/labelling them. At LFSs, most dwarf gouramies just get given whatever name appeals most to the person in charge - often they are amde up. For example, you get 'red flame dwarfs', 'neon blue', 'powder blue', 'honey', 'flame' and various others. Most of these are not 'standard' names (like you'd get for bettas or guppies for example - like 'grass' or 'butterfly' - both of which are used to describe specific patterns in guppies and bettas respectively and are what I'd call 'standardized'). With dwarfs, there is no standard naming.
So to sort things out

There are two species usually confused:
The dwarf gourami -
Colisa lalia. This is the species you own currently. They get to about 2", males are brightly colored, females are quite dull. They aren't aggressive towards other species but are very prone to disease and are easily stressed. The fourth pic down that you linked to is one of these.
Scroll down on that same page to where it says 'dwarf honey gourami' (the seventh working pic that you mentioned). Now that's not a dwarf

That's a honey gourami -
Colisa chuna/sota (sota and chuna are the same - it just depends on how recent your sources are as to what name they give). These usually stay a tad smaller - about 1.5". Males are still more colorful than females but they never have vertical stripes and they develop that dark black band in the ventral area when mature and in good condition. These are quite a bit hardier than dwarfs.
The yellow one you linked to is a honey - not a dwarf. Honeys have lots of color morphs - red, yellow, gold etc - this is one of them. Again, there is no 'standard' for naming the color morphs so you need to be looking at the scientific name.
Unlike dwarfs, these fish don't always mind their own business when it comes to other gourami species (despite their diminuitive size meaning they can't cause much harm) - but to answer your next question - you could get a trio of these (ie 1 male, 2 females) and they'de be fine with your current male dwarf. The females will keep the honey from harassing the dwarf and the dwarf will ignore the honeys (for the most part) anyway. As they are smaller (and less 'chunky'), you also aren't adding that much extra bioload to your tank either.
The reason both species can have 'dwarf' put into their name is because, originaly, people would consider all gouramies in the genus
Colisa to be 'dwarf' (in the sense of being small compared to other common genera like
Trichogaster). This isn't really the case any more. For example, the largest fish in this genus -
Colisa fasciata (banded gourami) - is also known as the 'giant' gourami (how confusing is
that? lol) because it's the biggest of the
Colisa species. Worse still, thick-lipped gouramies of one particular color morph are also confused with honeys, and labelled as such, even though they grow to be at least twice as large
I'm basically saying that you need to look for the scientific name and ignore the common ones or else learn to distinguish the two for yourself (which can be tricky with all the different color morphs)
edit: Here are some links to filter info:
http
/www.suite101.com/article.cfm/tropical_fish/97434/1 - This outlines all the different types for both freshwater and saltwater (the ones you should be most itnerested about are on the second page BTW). Along the side happen to be advertisments that link to sellers of these filters. If you click on those you'll be flooded with information, pictures etc
http
/animal-world.com/encyclo/fresh/info.../freshwater.htm - This is from the same site as the compatibility chart I think. It has some good illustrations and explanations of different filtration types. What you really want is something that combines both 'mechanical' and 'biological' filtration - power filters do this in a convenient way (as opposed to the inconvenient way that UGFs do it

).
http
/www.fishforums.net/index.php?showtopic=179820 - Check out the hardware section of this forum. This is a recent thread from there.
http
/www.fishforums.net/index.php?showtopic=139488 - About filter media. I just use sponge eprsonaly.
http
/www.fishforums.net/index.php?showtopic=4076 - Just interesting - probably not that helpfull unless you are considering a biowheel (I haven't seen any in the UK).