Is thre anythink eles aswell as cheato that when dies dont release bad stuff! and looks nice?
As cheato is so easy and grows soo fast.... does anybody wana send me some

pm me if you do
Chaeto can do the same as any other macro species, it's just a lot harder to make it go to sludge under standard tank conditions (assuming you don't overheat it - lost almost all my chaeto that way recently when moving to a new apartment) and it usually doesn't happen as quickly or release quite as big a volume of organic "stuff" into the water.
Easily preventable for caulerpa to go sexual? Doubt that, besides the fact that it can do it if it wants to basically, everyones tank has had its problems. What if the temperature spikes a tiny bit because you turned the air con off or the fan off? What if the caulerpa goes sexual then? A simple mistake in a delicate balance could throw off the caulerpa.
Speaking of Caulerpa species in specifics rather than generalities, I have yet to be able to make razor Caulpera (C. serrulata? darned if I can ever remember that one) go sexual. I've stressed that stuff to the point of it wilting and just plain rotting due to intolerable conditions, but never managed to trigger spores like I've seen from other species. It handles physical damage with very little fluid loss compared to other species as well. Not all Caulerpas are the same in that regard. I'm sure someone out there has managed to make that species of razor Caulerpa make some spores, but after a lot of deliberate efforts in buckets to test the resilience of that species, it seems pretty hardy - unless, of course, you overheat it to the point that chaeto melts too. Cooked macro is never happy macro. Now, some of the more notorious feather Caulerpas on the other hand...if you sneeze in the room with those you might cause them to make spores.
Anyway, in regards to preventability, I'm not speaking of preventing macro from going sexual. I'm referring to the tank nuke being easily preventable if something wipes out the macro - and going sexual isn't the only thing that can. Some macro is easy to wipe out just by being too rough with it. One of my Turbos chopped a big Caulerpa stem in half when munching and caused almost the whole mass to empty its fluids into my tank in a few minutes. I've also had my snails and hermits cause physical damage that made sections go sexual in response to stress in my other tanks. It's a bad idea to set up a tank with any living thing without planning for the inevitable "stuff happens" situation involving that living thing. You don't have to let your tank be nuked by the impending risk of O2 deprivation; that's a tank/equipment design choice. A water change even as late as at the end of the day to get the green gook out and having backup air supply going the whole time just in case is really all you need as a preventative measure. Someone brought up the issue of surface agitation being sufficient before, but the issue I've found is that the agitation just from powerhead won't deal with the organic films that can form pretty fast. You really need something popping the surface of the water to break up films or a more sophisticated diffusion system.