Individual people I mean. My betta flares whenever he sees my 27 year old son, but never flares at me or my husband. When my son gets in from a night out, the betta (he doesn't have a name) even leaves his resting place on top of the filter to flare at him as he walks in the door. The only thing we can think of is that my son nearly always wears black (jeans, T shirt, shirt etc) and it's the colour he is responding to. We'll have to experiment - son wearing bright colours, me wearing black - and see if it is that.
Any other theories?
Any other theories?


To this day I can never forget him and just typing this has brought tears to my eyes.
I can't imagine it's colour based either as I wear almost every colour there is.
He truly was an amzing creature. For about 6 months he lived with no lid on his tank and never once even tried to jump out. (I was kinda niave when I first had him.) Never come across such an intelligent little fish in my life and I doubt I ever will again.