Can someone please share with me pics showing the difference in the dorsal fins of male and female blue rams? I read about the longer fin in males, but don't quite trust myself to be able to really tell.
I bought a couple in a store, and the clerk wasn't too sure about sexing, either, (we couldn't see any pink bellies) and now I'm afraid I might have ended up with two males. I doubt I'll be able to return or exchange them, and I'm afraid one would abuse the other. We thought one did not have any black dorsal fin extensions, but when I got home, I noticed that both had, although one was shorter than the other's (apparently it had just been swept back at the store).
Also, does anybody know anything about balloon rams? I can't find much info on the net, saw them at the store and they were 3 times more expensive than the blue...
I bought a couple in a store, and the clerk wasn't too sure about sexing, either, (we couldn't see any pink bellies) and now I'm afraid I might have ended up with two males. I doubt I'll be able to return or exchange them, and I'm afraid one would abuse the other. We thought one did not have any black dorsal fin extensions, but when I got home, I noticed that both had, although one was shorter than the other's (apparently it had just been swept back at the store).
Also, does anybody know anything about balloon rams? I can't find much info on the net, saw them at the store and they were 3 times more expensive than the blue...