MermaidMel
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Tell me this is normal for a beginner
Changing your mind about their homes, moving them about a lot to ascertain what size space they like, because they're all different, can't stop looking at them, worrying about them, dreaming about them!! Feel like you're failing them even, whilst you're trying to get to know them and how they might be happiest?
I know Jai likes his 1g but I can't heat that properly unless it's on the 25g gallon tank lights and I can't keep them on, so he's had to go into a bigger space for now and he doesn't like it.
Rufus seems OK but I think he would prefer more space and definitely not to see Jai because he's quite the flarer.
I'm probably driving myself mad worrying, but I wanted to know if this is completely normal and does it ever go away!!!!!
Changing your mind about their homes, moving them about a lot to ascertain what size space they like, because they're all different, can't stop looking at them, worrying about them, dreaming about them!! Feel like you're failing them even, whilst you're trying to get to know them and how they might be happiest?
I know Jai likes his 1g but I can't heat that properly unless it's on the 25g gallon tank lights and I can't keep them on, so he's had to go into a bigger space for now and he doesn't like it.
Rufus seems OK but I think he would prefer more space and definitely not to see Jai because he's quite the flarer.
I'm probably driving myself mad worrying, but I wanted to know if this is completely normal and does it ever go away!!!!!