Sailfins will get to 6". Some stay slightly smaller, but they definitely get bigger then 3".
They are fairly easy, the only thing is, they usually like salt in their water. So that limits the fish they can be kept with. It depends how the breeder raised them though, some are raised in pure freshwater, and can therefore live in pure fresh, some were raised in 1 Tbs per 10 gallons of salt, and then need that much to stay healty...it all depends. Other then that, they aren't really hard. They can be aggressive to some smaller fish though. And you
need to have at least 3 females per male. Otherwise, they'll get pretty harassed.
They are really gorgeous fish though. I'm sure if you get some, you'll love them.
