You can divide Apistos into groups, and I wouldn't be surprised to someday see the Genus broken up.
cacatuoides are what I would call "generalists". They can breed in harder water, though fry numbers will be lower. They aren't specialists.
hongsloi, from the mcmasteri group are specialists adapted to an extreme softwater environment. Unless there has been a solid series of mutations among linebred ones, they are harder. I had to go to quite soft water to get any results with my wild caughts. Now, most of what you get are linebred colour sports chosen for you by whichever breeder thinks his are better looking than wilds.
cacatuoides, the eunotus group and borellii tend to be the most adaptable to medium hard water.
Apisto territorial fights usually leave you with neither species. Two die from one species, one from the other.