oh i seeeee, i wish i had known about cycling my tank before i set it up, now i have a full 75g tank that seems to be pretty balanced, i just need to get the water clearer, which i think is just due to a lack of turn overs per hour, ive been running with the same media in my filters for atleast 4 months now though, and ammonia is never a problem of having in my tanks, its always too high, therefore i use tons of aeration to reduce it. i honestly cant believe most of my fish lived through the ammonia spike.
but thanks for clearing that up i was talking to my dad when i visited him and that was the conclusion we came up with so you just verified it.
and is it bad that my fish cichlids seem to enjoy the gravel more than the sand :[