blue_betta
Fish Herder
hmm, thinking about it though, if you breed them to be docile, will they even breed at all? aggression seem to play an important part in breeding and courtship
Oh good grief. I can't believe this discussion is even happening. I breed bettas. And when the males....and some females, reach a certain age they turn on their siblings. Yes, they really do. It is very rare for any male betta to even think of putting up with another in his territory, especially in such a confined space. The reason they are aggressive is for breeding rights in their natural enviroment and living space when water levels become very low. Remember these are air breathing fish that can and will travel across short areas of land to find a new watering hole if necessary. So long as they remain wet on their skin surface they can stay out of water indefinitely.
To try and breed out their aggression you are always going to fail. Even if you breed an especially docile male to an especially docile female. You will get agressive young in the spawn. It's nature, it's their genetics and to take that away you'll end up with something not even close to a betta. After all a passive betta wouldn't try to flare and therefore wouldn't need those fins or colouration to show off, so eventually you'd lose them too.
Please, please do not put this to the test. I have seen the outcome of someones bettas that they did this to. The fins were a mess, they were stressed and far from top condition. Hardly a fair way to expect them to live. If you want fish that'll live together packed in like sardines then get Malawis, only not in a 10g or they'll be dead within the month.
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After all a passive betta wouldn't try to flare and therefore wouldn't need those fins or colouration to show off, so eventually you'd lose them too.
You seem to be forgetting that bettas have been bred for centuries to be as aggressive as possible, isolated from a young age from any other fish for generations. You can't make a comparison with cichlids- bettas do not know when to stop attacking and retreat. They'll keep at it until they're both dead.
What about the wild-type betta? These have very little fighting instinct, yet when breeders got their hands on them, accelerated the aggression of the fish.