There is no cure for MTS (multiple tank syndrome

). But a word of advice to save you from the drop to reality from the "lust" stage: a couple of months ago when I was thinking of getting back into the aquarium hobby after my 15+ year hiatus, I had some very serious conversations with hubby about what is realistic from a maintenance perspective vs not realistic. Our conclusion was that with our lifestyle and kids etc, it made sense to try and look at this hobby from the perspective of "how can we get the most visual return for the least effort". That thinking process resulted in us making some big decisions on tank size etc that really set the tone and theme for what kinds and how many of fish we will keep.
Our criteria basically were: 1) Chasing down a toddler and with me back in school next year (taking a gap year currently due to covid daycare challenges), I will be able to keep up with every two week water changes (slipping to monthly during crazy times), but weekly water changes are not going to be a reality. 2) If we go through the effort of setting up a tank, it better look like something too 3) The fish and plants we get need to be affordable, but also not require any specialty treatment, which means that they need to match our water parameters and not have special diets/other requirements.
What this basically resulted in us deciding was to do a 125 gallon tank in the den (lol. we started off thinking I was just going to set up a 40g to amuse our toddler haha), and that we are going to overfilter it and understock it, and try to have plants. If we have the stocking levels of a 75g in a 125g, it gives us a bit of wiggle room with water parameters and delays the onset of "Old Tank Syndrome", hopefully preventing problems down the line if life takes over one week and the scheduled water change gets delayed.
A heads up for you since you're in the US: check out petsmart and petco for their current sales, I know petco is currently doing a "dollar per gallon" sale on fish tanks (but they only go up to a certain size), and Petsmart has some of their kits on sale currently as well as it looks like their ad says they are going to be doing a 50% reduction on their 60g tank+stand combo (but I don't personally love the dimensions of that).
We ended up buying our stand on craigslist, and there are also great deals to be had on tanks there as well (I ended up scoring a deal on a new tank so that made me happy).
One more thought: if you do go with a larger tank, make sure that the floor joists are perpendicular instead of parallel to wherever you are thinking of placing it (starts to matter after ~60g), and the best placement would be to put it near one of those iron bar things that go across the basement that the joists are hooked into, or next to an exterior wall since that will also take immediate load off the joists (assuming you have a basement or a foundation on your crawl space). If you are on a slab with no crawlspace, then go to town and put it anywhere! lol.