Haha, you are forgiven 
She's getting a bit beaten up by the male, but surprisingly the main culprit for chasing her is my BN Pleco, she lets all the other fish swim around her bogwood, but not the female goby for some reason. I think it's because the female is a smaller algae eater, and likes very much the same things as the pleco she's seen as competition Whereas the male holds his own and co-exists with the rest of the community very well!
She's getting a bit beaten up by the male, but surprisingly the main culprit for chasing her is my BN Pleco, she lets all the other fish swim around her bogwood, but not the female goby for some reason. I think it's because the female is a smaller algae eater, and likes very much the same things as the pleco she's seen as competition
Whereas the male holds his own and co-exists with the rest of the community very well!
