All that boiling and whatnot really is overrated. Here is what is really important: is the wood dried out? You don't want any sap from the tree in your tank. Does it look healthy? It is covered in mold and squishy and soft from being broken down? Obviously if it is, then it is not going in the tank. The biggest thing is that if the wood has been sitting in the woods, how would it acquire fish-specific pathogens? I know you said oak, but you need to make sure, since some woods are mildly toxic, i.e. how no other plants grow under a walnut tree. Do a little research while you leave the wood outside to weather off the ground. If it is not soft, and not green, and research says it is pretty safe, that isn't much reason not to go ahead and use it.