my platty/mollie (dont know which because it looks like a platys nad was sold as a molly, and it doesnt have the bigger mouth or anything) daphney was a GIRl when i bough HER. but yeturday her godium fin thing was like the males and SHE kept flaring it out. and it was like the females before. is it possible? is there a way 2 make her want 2 go back? i dont want any males theyre kinda mean. ill have 2 ge rid of it if i cant get it 2 go back, not even sure that that is possible.