The difference between these forums (and ones like them) is that it's 2-way communication; you can ask people who've experienced things first-hand very specific questions. Most books you'd find in a public library have to be much more generalized than you can be on a forum. Books are always a great place to start, but more specific questions can't always be addressed.
Also, nothing personal, but when I see this I cringe;"Would you OF...". It should read "Would you HAVE...". Again, nothing personal, I just can't stand seeing that typed.