Whole 100g Setup

[markandhisfish]

sick to the back teeth of my missus moaning about my hobby

4x2x2 100g from nd aquatics with eheim pro2 2028 filter lights 2 300w heaters airp pump all decor mangrove roots redmoor root etc rocks

red sev rotkeil sev 2 kribs ( breeding pair) 2 cryptoheros cutteri 1 wild blue acara 1 L81 golden nugget plec 12 cories 1 firemouth test kit food the whole lot

£700 no offers buyer collects

 

[Miah002]

Does this mean your leaving the hobby?

 

[markandhisfish]

yeah im sick of not being able to enjoy it in peace

 

[Truck]

thats such a shame mark... that new rokteil

whats happening to vinnie he is awesome

 

[Miah002]

Nooooooo. I liked reading your posts.

 

[seandmc04@]

Sounds like you need to sell the missus

 

[markandhisfish]

i dont want to leave the hobby i love it but its causing problems

 

[smegforbrains]

Find a new missus then

 

[minxfishy]

What the F*** are you doing?

 

[markandhisfish]

i just couldnt do it. we will have to find some middle ground . should be hard we are both very stubborn lol

 

[Truck]

What the F*** are you doing?

if your talking to mark im thinking the same thing

im still a kid, but have witnessed many parental arguements from my early child hood, use quotes like these lol

does my hobby in anyway affect your welfare?
is it physically hurting you?
i enjoy something and im sure she has a hobby which you dont particularly like but dont say anything about it.

stay strong!!

 

[stang1]

Glad to hear you can't give up the tank!

 

[minxfishy]

Dont do it, you will seriously regret it, spoil her a bit, take her out to dinner, beg, plead, promise a word I cannot say on here on a nightly basis, but do not part with that tank. Or Im coming down to spank your be-hind!

You have been warned

 

[Truck]

yeh indulge in her fantasies for a few weeks

 

[markandhisfish]

ooooh a spanking?? is that a promise??? in that case free to anybody who will collect seriously tho this all sprang from the blue acara/ cutteri bullying situation. trouble with karen is she would run gthe tank with her heart whereas i use a combination o say 10% heart 90% head. she gets attatched to fish which yes i do to a degree but if i make a decision about removing fish eg had to sacrifice all those fish to make room for the rottie thee decision is made using my head and knowledge of what the fish need not what id like to happen. so the acara situation is we both love the acara as hes a stunner but a moody sod we both like the cutteri as they are easy going and dont hurt anything. so sell the cutteri was agreed then i realise that if we sell the cutteri and get something else chances are the acara will be the same with that and the cutteri have gone for nothing so using my head i say acara should go as he is the disruptive influence in an otyherwise chilled tank. but karen thinking with heart says he was there 1st etc etc . i use my head she uses her heart so if i make a decision with my head that her heart dont like boom it gos off