Things have changed a
lot in fishkeeping since the 70s!
Yes, we do bigger water changes more often now. This actually
helps keep the water stable; it's what happens in the tank with the fish and the plants and their various processes that change the water (in general making it more acidic, less mineralised and higher in nitrates); what comes out of your tap is (usually anyway) much the same all the time.
More, larger water changes mean that your fish are living in, more or less, unchanged tap water that is frequently re-plenished so the tank never slides into the pH crashing, very acidic, low mineral conditions that used to make our fish and plants waste away.
It's also very valuable to be able to do massive water changes whithout shocking the fish; I honestly believe that saves more fishy lives than any medicine ever has.
I personally have noticed that I can keep a broader range of fish for much longer and have them grow much larger than in the 'good old days'
I don't agree that more frequent water changes is 'making your life a little more difficult than is necessary'. Times change; research moves on and teaches us new things and we should embrace that and learn what we can to make our fish's lives better and our tanks healthier and more successful.
The pink danios aren't irradiated or dyed; they're 'GM'; have had genes from other species (mostly jellyfish) that make them those bright colours (they glow in the dark too!) Not everone agrees with it, but it's not actualy cruel and does no harm to the fish.
As for the angels..there's a very simple explanation for that; they reached sexual maturity and killed each other. I'm afraid angels
don't have a "death to us part relationship", however nice it would be if they did! The best way to keep angels is in a group of 6+ (and even then you may have to remove some fish as they mature and pair off) or as a single specimen. They're a suprisingly aggressive species!
Anyway, welcome to the forum and I'm sure you'll enjoy getting back into the hobby