I have two pairs of a. cacatuoides in two separate well planted tanks. One tank also has 12 Glowlight tetras and the other pair are by themselves. I only see the females out swimming once every few weeks. Is that normal behavior? Are they fearful of the males? Second issue. I offer food every other day. You would think the fish would bolt for it like my many other species that are all in other tanks. I feed frozen blood worms, live black worms, high quality pellets and flakes. I rarely see them eat. I have been breeding these guys since last October so this is not new behavior. They must be eating because they look healthy and the food is off the substrate by the next morning usually. Ideas? Thanks.
First the worms are very bad for cockatoo; if you want to give them a treat try live bbs (baby brine shrimp); or frozen shrimp - long term feeding of worms esp blood worms will shorten their life span.
The male and female will never be friends; he will chase her when she doesn't want to breed and when she has eggs or frys she might chase him (though this is depending on individuals and is more true with other species of apistogramma); I have about 10 species of apistogramma right now (d39, elizabeth, winkelfleck, sp bluketa, ladisalo, wolli, nijjensi, sp inspira, nobertii) ok only 8 - the visiblitty depends on different factors but frequently the male is more likely to hide than the female. With the a. wolli both sexes hide, with the nijjensi neither sex hide, d39 when adjusted neither hide, ladisalo the male mostly hides, sp bluketa no one hides, sp inspira mostly don't hide any longer, elizabeth male doesn['t hide.
In general the male seems more prone to hide but i can't tell you in the end what determines if they hide or don't - i know a long time keeper of wolli was very surprise that mine were hiding but after 18 months they still mostly hide. For 6 months i didn't even know for sure if i had a male it never showed itself.
Anyway you get the picture - i can't find any rhyme or reason with regards to dither or aquarium layout what determines the behavior but i highly recommend nijjensi as a readily available species that is quite attactive - though it is more aggressive than cockatoo and requires softer water if you wish to breed. There is only one colour form of nijjensi:
male i had many years ago - can't find the picture of the one i currently have.