If you pick up the March 2009 edition of PFK, there's a pretty good article on these snails.
There aren't many sites on them, and even fewer I'd trust, given that most hobbyists haven't the first clue about gastropod systematics! Back when I was doing my PhD at the Natural History Museum, there was one chap, an expert on limpets, who discovered that the best way to tell them apart was by looking carefully at what male limpets would consider their penises! The sorts of characters hobbyists use, like shell colours and shapes, tend to be very unreliable in practise.
All Tylomelania seem to be very similar in terms of size (5-12 cm), care (pretty easy), and diet (omnivorous). I have some in a freshwater tank, and some in a low-end brackish one, and both sets are thriving.
Cheers, Neale