Hello, I would so very much appreciate hearing the opinions and experience of others regarding the fish species that would work well together in my tank. I am having terrible "FINdecision" issues (ba dum dum! - yeah, I know, don't quit my day job
).
I have a 55 gallon fully cycled tank with plants and sand substrate. I have soft water with a pH of ~6.5.
I currently have:
5 flame tetras (Hyphessobrycon flammeus) - 2 females, 3 males
2 blue neon goby (stiphodon atropurpureus) - 2 females
4 Bronze cories (Corydoras aeneus) - gender undetermined
2 Peppered cories (Corydoras paleatus) - gender undetermined
I plan to get at least 5 more flame tetras as soon as I can find any. I hope to increase the number of females to have more of them than males because they are happier that way.
Here are 3 potential stocking scenarios. My numbers may need altering:
10-12 Flame tetras
10-12 Bloodfin tetras
~15 Ember tetras
Existing cories and gobies
~24 Flame tetras
~30 Ember tetras
Existing cories and gobies
~24 Flame tetras
~15 Bloodfin tetras
Existing cories and gobies
I am kind of regretting the cories. As much as I researched before I bought, I obviously didn't do a good enough job because I thought the different species of cories would be okay together, but the Peppered cories prefer each other's company to the aeneus cories. I really can't blame them, because the aeneus cories are insane. Apparently they didn't read the same info I read, because they don't seem to know they are supposed to be bottom dwellers. They swim all over the tank, careening into the flame tetras or each other, whoever happens to be in their path. They don't seem to be aggressive, just in a hurry and if anyone is in the way, well, that's too bad 'cause they're coming through! I'm not talking about the quick dart to the surface for a gulp of air. I'm talking about racing from one side to the other like the Indy 500. It's usually only 2 at at time doing this. Never all 4 at once.
Questions:
1. Are the orange Von Rios (without stripes) the same as the Flame Tetras (with stripes), as far as the fish is concerned from a schooling/shoaling perspective? If so, I may just get some of the orange ones because I know of some in a store right now and I'm having trouble finding the ones with stripes. But if they won't consider each other as the same, then I don't want them because I am trying to keep the number of species to a minimum.
2. The cories. What should I do about the cories? I suspect that the first piece of advice is going to be for me to get 2 more aeneus and 4 more Peppered so that there will be 6 of each, but I really don't want to do that. I don't want 12 cories. That's a lot of cories. Is it possible they will be okay as-is? I am content to let all of them stay if they will be happy. Should I try to see if the store will let me exchange one species for another? If so, how the heck will I get them out?!?
3. Additional species - Bloodfin tetras: I like bloodfin tetras, even though everyone I've talked to seems to find them boring, silver, regular fish-shaped, nothing interesting about them, fish. I happen to think they are very pretty, especially the way they swim together. My concerns are: 1) I've read conflicting info about their aggression and activity levels. Does anyone here have experience with them? 2) They get to be 2", which may be too large to have a big group of them in a 55 gallon. Also, I don't want them bothering my gobies. I adore my gobies. I don't want them spooked or harassed. If the bloodfins are liable to bother or frighten them, I'll have to pass.
4. Additional species - Ember tetras: I simply adore these little guys. Potential problems are that they are more difficult to find; a little more expensive, especially considering that more would be needed to make a proper group; they are harder to find (only one store has them in right now and there's only four); they might get eaten or at least be terrified by a group of bloodfins. Also, I read they hang out mostly at the bottom and the bottom of my tank is already full.
Miscellaneous stocking thoughts: I really love - LOVE - the way Diamond tetras look, but I have read that they are quite aggressive. All of the long, flowy finned fish seem to be pushy to their tank mates (hmmm... another tank with just diamonds?
). Also, I adore Microdevario Kubotai but I saw one (just one) last night and it was $5.99. Six dollars per fish is just too much when I wanted a group of at least 30. So, I'm thinking they are probably out.
Please, please, please weigh in with your advice and experience. I desperately need help here or I may be frozen in indecision forever. Thank you for any help you can offer.

I have a 55 gallon fully cycled tank with plants and sand substrate. I have soft water with a pH of ~6.5.
I currently have:
5 flame tetras (Hyphessobrycon flammeus) - 2 females, 3 males
2 blue neon goby (stiphodon atropurpureus) - 2 females
4 Bronze cories (Corydoras aeneus) - gender undetermined
2 Peppered cories (Corydoras paleatus) - gender undetermined
I plan to get at least 5 more flame tetras as soon as I can find any. I hope to increase the number of females to have more of them than males because they are happier that way.
Here are 3 potential stocking scenarios. My numbers may need altering:
10-12 Flame tetras
10-12 Bloodfin tetras
~15 Ember tetras
Existing cories and gobies
~24 Flame tetras
~30 Ember tetras
Existing cories and gobies
~24 Flame tetras
~15 Bloodfin tetras
Existing cories and gobies
I am kind of regretting the cories. As much as I researched before I bought, I obviously didn't do a good enough job because I thought the different species of cories would be okay together, but the Peppered cories prefer each other's company to the aeneus cories. I really can't blame them, because the aeneus cories are insane. Apparently they didn't read the same info I read, because they don't seem to know they are supposed to be bottom dwellers. They swim all over the tank, careening into the flame tetras or each other, whoever happens to be in their path. They don't seem to be aggressive, just in a hurry and if anyone is in the way, well, that's too bad 'cause they're coming through! I'm not talking about the quick dart to the surface for a gulp of air. I'm talking about racing from one side to the other like the Indy 500. It's usually only 2 at at time doing this. Never all 4 at once.
Questions:
1. Are the orange Von Rios (without stripes) the same as the Flame Tetras (with stripes), as far as the fish is concerned from a schooling/shoaling perspective? If so, I may just get some of the orange ones because I know of some in a store right now and I'm having trouble finding the ones with stripes. But if they won't consider each other as the same, then I don't want them because I am trying to keep the number of species to a minimum.
2. The cories. What should I do about the cories? I suspect that the first piece of advice is going to be for me to get 2 more aeneus and 4 more Peppered so that there will be 6 of each, but I really don't want to do that. I don't want 12 cories. That's a lot of cories. Is it possible they will be okay as-is? I am content to let all of them stay if they will be happy. Should I try to see if the store will let me exchange one species for another? If so, how the heck will I get them out?!?

3. Additional species - Bloodfin tetras: I like bloodfin tetras, even though everyone I've talked to seems to find them boring, silver, regular fish-shaped, nothing interesting about them, fish. I happen to think they are very pretty, especially the way they swim together. My concerns are: 1) I've read conflicting info about their aggression and activity levels. Does anyone here have experience with them? 2) They get to be 2", which may be too large to have a big group of them in a 55 gallon. Also, I don't want them bothering my gobies. I adore my gobies. I don't want them spooked or harassed. If the bloodfins are liable to bother or frighten them, I'll have to pass.
4. Additional species - Ember tetras: I simply adore these little guys. Potential problems are that they are more difficult to find; a little more expensive, especially considering that more would be needed to make a proper group; they are harder to find (only one store has them in right now and there's only four); they might get eaten or at least be terrified by a group of bloodfins. Also, I read they hang out mostly at the bottom and the bottom of my tank is already full.
Miscellaneous stocking thoughts: I really love - LOVE - the way Diamond tetras look, but I have read that they are quite aggressive. All of the long, flowy finned fish seem to be pushy to their tank mates (hmmm... another tank with just diamonds?


Please, please, please weigh in with your advice and experience. I desperately need help here or I may be frozen in indecision forever. Thank you for any help you can offer.