I once had a power blackout in winter that wiped out a shoal of robust, healthy cardinal tetras I had bought 7 years before. I would love to have seen how long they could have lived for. They looked great the day before the room got too cold for them.
Our aquariums are very unnatural. No predators, relative stability, easy access to food. I'm like
@seangee in that I would be seen as an underfeeder by some. I change water regularly, religiously. These fish lived in a 75 gallon tank, with many fewer fish than the industry stocking calculators suggest.
I bred some cardinals last year, and so I know when they got started. I hope to see how long they live for, if I can outlast them. I have been responsible for some short fish lives, but as I've gained experience and perspective, used larger tanks, stocked more thoughtfully and learned to avoid overfeeding, fish are living long. Yeah, I have killed more fish than an angler. A lot more. My early tanks with no water changes make me cringe when I think of them.
For anyone who cares to learn, there is a lot of info out there, and a lot of people willing to share successes and failures. I think it's important to let go of some ideas - one being that small fish find living with occasional predators like angels okay. In nature, they avoid them when they can, and the Amazon doesn't have corners they can be trapped in. Small fish should live with small fish, and none should be disposable life. That neon deserves as much care as that Discus.
Mixed species communities take thinking through much more than tanks with a few larger fish. We tend to think it's the opposite, but those small ones are evolved to evade. They often live by taking to the shallows, tangles of roots, temporary habitats, flooded forests and other extreme environments. Extreme means specialized in evolution, and specialized can mean not very adaptable anymore. They've already adapted to thrive in places larger fish would die in, and we can't expect them to have the tools to thrive in overcrowded community tanks with fish several times their size.