Sexing Bolivian Rams is quite difficult as they become sexually dimorphic as they grow. Based on the pics (and I am quite possibly wrong) 1 and 3 look like males (more certain of 3), 2 a female. Again, this is VERY inaccurate. What is the water temperature of your tank? Your rams look a little drab. Try increasing your temp to about 80 to see their true colors.