
I've been trying to find out the exact same question about my own Gourami of same species.
Its incredible that nobody seems to know for sure???
I've been told mine is a female, then I was told its a male....so I'm none the wiser!
The only information I can get on Red Honey Gouramis is that their colouring is quite similar when young, but their dorsal fins differ...Males more pointed, Females more rounded...Until they reach full maturity its quite hard to sex them.
The Males become very red though during breeding and develop a black colouring....the females stay pale.
Males will busy themselves building bubble nest, females don't.
That's all I've found on it....
But to my eye, your two are definitely different....one has a more pointed fin and the other more rounded...but its a fine line, I'll admit so I couldn't be sure!
(Edited to change spelling!)