Returning to the hobby after a long break must be intriguing - you'll know a lot but have missed a lot that has gone on. None of it changes the world, but it does change how we try things.
Diana Walstad did a book a ways back in which she approached the whole question of planted tanks in a very rigorous, thought out fashion. Since then, we've had a lot of half digested approaches, as the approach has been simplified and rendered almost magical by some. Father Fish is the latest and among the most oversimplified of the sort, and his approach is doing damage. We used to debate on another forum before he became a guru, and he would never answer a direct question about basic approaches. If it didn't fit his vision, he wouldn't answer it. His is a very faith based approach, although he has his followers.
I'd go back to the science if I were you. There is a lot of value in the dirted tank approach, as long as the fish don't come first in your vision. If plants are what you're into, then it can be an enjoyable approach. If you like the Corydoras group, loaches, Cichlids or other substrate oriented groups, it's probably best to give it a pass.
Aquarists haven't changed since you left the hobby. We all have completely different answers depending on what we focus on, and sometimes we're all right because of that. If we sit down and talk, we can see the differences in approaches that fuel the different answers, but online, typing short answers, it takes time to figure out who is doing what well, and why.
For the type of tank you seem to be considering,
@MattW is a good info source.