Oh believe me, I understand the frustration

I experienced it myself just today- I was convinced that I would never own a betta again after I lost my Snapdragon, but then just today I found two pairs of gorgeous copper delta sibs on Aquabid. They were utter perfection- I was sooo psyched, and I was all set to bid. I just sent her an e-mail asking a question about what currency the listing was in, and then I was planning my new female tank, the boys' barracks- everything.
Then I heard back from her, and while the currency issue got settled, it was kind of a moot point because she had to break it to me that someone had used some bleach in the same bucket that she used to set her water in overnight, and when she was changing the jars this morning, she didn't notice it in time. She lost a breeder as well as what were going to be my babies

I think I was even more upset than she was, lol, though with e-mail it's hard to tell.
Anyway, yes. I'm still trying to console myself that it happened for a reason, so we can be in this together if you like
