If you own, or have even had a bolivian ram before, how do your eat, and what do they eat? I don't think i've seen mine eat yet, and i've had him for quite some time, he doesn't come up to the surface to eat, i'm trying to feed him flakes, and next time im at the lfs, maybe get some frozen foods or something...will they eat flakes, pellets, cichlid pellets? what? thanks.